For the Woman Who Leaves Men on Seen

If you’re at the point where a man’s compliment doesn’t mean anything to you,  and you leave even ones that are attractive on seen, when they’re nice to you, like ‘I deserve this, I’m better than him, he’s just a man, I do what I want. I don’t care. “

You are getting to a point of entitlement, overabundance of attention and delusion which might feel like a high but is gona fuck you up when it comes to actually finding a happy relationship.  Not just with a man but with yourself,  with friends etc.  No one likes entitled people,  and moreover entitled people dont like themselves lmao

We evolved and have the spiritual nature of empathy.  Thats why deep down you feel good when kind but like shit when mean. So if you’re acting this way,  you gotta stop.  This is esp important if you’re young too cuz it’s easier to avoid trauma than heal it. And make good habits rather than break bad – but both can be done of course. 

Curate your attention.  Limit who has access to you to only actually people you might connect with or like. In other words dont just let everyone talk to you. That way you can actually be like a human being rather than just an attention addict.  Ie going back to the natural state of humans.  That way you can heal otherwise life will be very miserable and lonely. Fix up.

Note: I know some men do this too. But the modern digital landscape heavily favours women in terms of the flow of attention. Ergo, women are more likely to fall prey to the trap of entitlement and delusion. It’s important to not do this.

Say no to the temptation of attention from men you know you don’t like or connect with, thus you will have no need to be mean etc.

And of course men ought not do this either. We all need to be kind, and empathetic as well as intelligent with who we allow into our digital worlds, and personal lives. Kind and wise. Thus we can avoid becoming cold, or mean.