THE TRUTH ABOUT EMOTIONAL PAIN LIKE DEPRESSION/ANXIETY

YOU WOULDNT GO INTO A HOSPITAL WARD OF MALARIA AND TOUCH EVERYTHING WITHOUT WASHING UR HANDS TO PROVE UR STRONGER THAN IT HAHAH THATS MADNESS. WHY ? CUZ U KNOW YOU ARE GOING TO GET SICK IF YOU DO THAT. BUT IF YOU WASH YOUR HANDS YOU WILL BE OK. SO TOO WITH EMOTIONAL PAIN … Continue reading THE TRUTH ABOUT EMOTIONAL PAIN LIKE DEPRESSION/ANXIETY →

Emotional Science: A New and Necessary Field in Human Medicine

Introduction: For centuries, humanity has misunderstood the nature of emotional suffering. Depression, anxiety, grief, despair—these have all been lumped under the vague and often misleading term “mental illness,” as if they are disorders of thought, logic, or cognition. But they are not. Emotional states are not delusions. Emotional pain is not a thought error. Emotional … Continue reading Emotional Science: A New and Necessary Field in Human Medicine →

Some advice on love

As ur big brother let me give u some advice please: someone who loves you won't lie to you. they will tell you the truth, even in situations where it will make them look bad. they will not lie to you about bad things they've done or want to do. but will be honest about … Continue reading Some advice on love →

The Psychology of Sexual Predators Who Prey on Young Teens and Children

Human evil often manifests in different shapes, but sexual predation against minors has always stood as one of the darkest. To understand it, we cannot simply stop at biology or superficial psychology. We must uncover the underlying soil—the weakness, nihilism, lust, and hunger for power—that gives rise to this behavior. Predators are not born; they … Continue reading The Psychology of Sexual Predators Who Prey on Young Teens and Children →

The External Is A Shell – Focus on the Internal

Whether we are talking about relationships, or effectiveness in therapy, or true happiness. The thing you must remember is that the external: beauty, muscles, body, money, material wealth, and so on - is all a shell. The shell might look good, but the real important thing we must know is what the fuck is inside … Continue reading The External Is A Shell – Focus on the Internal →

Listen Carefully: Don’t Expect Fire to Be Cold, or Ice to Be Warm. When someone shows you who they are, that’s who they are. No you can’t change them. Find what actually fits for you.

You Didn’t Get The Message, And It’s Not Your Fault: How Texting (and WhatsApp) Is Terrible for Real Communication and is the Source of Many of Our Arguments

You Didn’t Get The Message, And It’s Not Your Fault: How Texting (and WhatsApp) Is Terrible for Real Communication and is the Source of Many of Our Arguments We live in a world where texting—WhatsApp, Messenger, SMS—has become the default way we talk. It’s instant, always available, and seems effortless. But after years of real … Continue reading You Didn’t Get The Message, And It’s Not Your Fault: How Texting (and WhatsApp) Is Terrible for Real Communication and is the Source of Many of Our Arguments →

Nice People Set the Best Boundaries – Here’s How to Actually Do it (effectively)

my only other advice is to do it as soon as you can. As soon as you get actually hurt by something you should set a boundary nicely . If it's just a little annoying. then ok you can overlook it. But if it genuinely hurt your feelings. you should set a boundary with it. … Continue reading Nice People Set the Best Boundaries – Here’s How to Actually Do it (effectively) →

The End of the Old World: Why Modern Life Feels So Hollow, Why Marriage is Dying (And What We Can Do About It)

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the concept of success—what it means, and more importantly, who gets to define it. By the popular standards of the Western post-1960s model, I should probably consider myself a failure. I didn’t go to prom. I didn’t party in high school. I didn’t even finish school the normal … Continue reading The End of the Old World: Why Modern Life Feels So Hollow, Why Marriage is Dying (And What We Can Do About It) →

Destroying Every “Good reason” For Suicide – Saving My Own Life And Yours

“Is it possible to live like this for another 40 years?” This is not just a passing thought. It is the cry of a soul pressed against the wall of its own existence. The thought does not come lightly. It comes after long silence. It comes in the moments before waking. It comes when a … Continue reading Destroying Every “Good reason” For Suicide – Saving My Own Life And Yours →