Human evil often manifests in different shapes, but sexual predation against minors has always stood as one of the darkest. To understand it, we cannot simply stop at biology or superficial psychology. We must uncover the underlying soil—the weakness, nihilism, lust, and hunger for power—that gives rise to this behavior. Predators are not born; they … Continue reading The Psychology of Sexual Predators Who Prey on Young Teens and Children
The External Is A Shell – Focus on the Internal
Whether we are talking about relationships, or effectiveness in therapy, or true happiness. The thing you must remember is that the external: beauty, muscles, body, money, material wealth, and so on - is all a shell. The shell might look good, but the real important thing we must know is what the fuck is inside … Continue reading The External Is A Shell – Focus on the Internal
Listen Carefully: Don’t Expect Fire to Be Cold, or Ice to Be Warm. When someone shows you who they are, that’s who they are. No you can’t change them. Find what actually fits for you.
Just focus on being a good person. Being Good is Success.
You are not your feelings.
Separate emotion from identity. You are not your feelings . You can feel sad or anxious. But it doesn't mean you are a sad person or anxious person. You are you. Your feelings are yours. There is a important difference. You can feel them but you get to decide who you are and what you … Continue reading You are not your feelings.
You Didn’t Get The Message, And It’s Not Your Fault: How Texting (and WhatsApp) Is Terrible for Real Communication and is the Source of Many of Our Arguments
You Didn’t Get The Message, And It’s Not Your Fault: How Texting (and WhatsApp) Is Terrible for Real Communication and is the Source of Many of Our Arguments We live in a world where texting—WhatsApp, Messenger, SMS—has become the default way we talk. It’s instant, always available, and seems effortless. But after years of real … Continue reading You Didn’t Get The Message, And It’s Not Your Fault: How Texting (and WhatsApp) Is Terrible for Real Communication and is the Source of Many of Our Arguments
Israel continues to butcher children – here’s why the world doesn’t stop it.
Israel today just killed 10 more innocent people lining up for medical aid supplies. It is another 10 added to the list of thousands of innocent men, women, babies and children. Israel has no doubt committed multiple crimes against God and humanity. They have much blood on their hands. Enough blood that it could create … Continue reading Israel continues to butcher children – here’s why the world doesn’t stop it.
Sometimes we don’t need formal learning, just need to listen to the quiet voice inside.
Some of the happiest, best people in the world have no formal understanding of complex history, philosophy or psychology. The instincts bestowed on us by nature and God are enough to live a full, happy, good life. And in fact often an education in the sciences and humanities can do more to push us away … Continue reading Sometimes we don’t need formal learning, just need to listen to the quiet voice inside.
Nice People Set the Best Boundaries – Here’s How to Actually Do it (effectively)
my only other advice is to do it as soon as you can. As soon as you get actually hurt by something you should set a boundary nicely . If it's just a little annoying. then ok you can overlook it. But if it genuinely hurt your feelings. you should set a boundary with it. … Continue reading Nice People Set the Best Boundaries – Here’s How to Actually Do it (effectively)
