Listen Carefully: Don’t Expect Fire to Be Cold, or Ice to Be Warm. When someone shows you who they are, that’s who they are. No you can’t change them. Find what actually fits for you.

You Didn’t Get The Message, And It’s Not Your Fault: How Texting (and WhatsApp) Is Terrible for Real Communication and is the Source of Many of Our Arguments

You Didn’t Get The Message, And It’s Not Your Fault: How Texting (and WhatsApp) Is Terrible for Real Communication and is the Source of Many of Our Arguments We live in a world where texting—WhatsApp, Messenger, SMS—has become the default way we talk. It’s instant, always available, and seems effortless. But after years of real … Continue reading You Didn’t Get The Message, And It’s Not Your Fault: How Texting (and WhatsApp) Is Terrible for Real Communication and is the Source of Many of Our Arguments →

Today is the Year 11,525 AG. Let me explain: my proposal for a new dating system

I dont like using BC. its very clumsy and clunky and no reason - although Christ is a great figure - to start at his birth. It splits history into two halves for no good, objective reason. And it makes things confusing. Why do we count down, then count up again? Respectfully, it's fucking stupid. … Continue reading Today is the Year 11,525 AG. Let me explain: my proposal for a new dating system →

The End of the Old World: Why Modern Life Feels So Hollow, Why Marriage is Dying (And What We Can Do About It)

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the concept of success—what it means, and more importantly, who gets to define it. By the popular standards of the Western post-1960s model, I should probably consider myself a failure. I didn’t go to prom. I didn’t party in high school. I didn’t even finish school the normal … Continue reading The End of the Old World: Why Modern Life Feels So Hollow, Why Marriage is Dying (And What We Can Do About It) →

Is Casual Sex Ethical? A Systematic, Logical Investigation into the Ethics of Sex

Copyright © 2025 Zak All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means—electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise—without prior written permission from the author, except in the case of brief quotations used in critical articles or reviews. Also by … Continue reading Is Casual Sex Ethical? A Systematic, Logical Investigation into the Ethics of Sex →

For the Woman Who Leaves Men on Seen

If you're at the point where a man's compliment doesn't mean anything to you, and you leave even ones that are attractive on seen, when they're nice to you, like 'I deserve this, I'm better than him, he's just a man, I do what I want. I don't care. " You are getting to a … Continue reading For the Woman Who Leaves Men on Seen →