Tag: self esteem

The Threefold Anchor: Mind, Body, and Soul

There is a law of harmony between mind, body, and soul. When these three stand apart, we suffer. When they anchor into one another, we are made whole.This essay is an articulation of that law. Not a theory, but a map home. I. The Mind Is Water The mind is not a solid thing. It … Continue reading The Threefold Anchor: Mind, Body, and Soul →

Breaking Free from Self-Minimization and Imposter Syndrome: The Art of Quiet Confidence and Owning Your Presence

Many people unknowingly shrink in the presence of authority, wealth, or status—downplaying their achievements, hesitating to own their identity, and seeking external validation before they feel “real.” But true self-assurance isn’t about proving anything to the world—it’s about knowing you already are what you claim to be. The highest level of confidence is not needing recognition, yet never minimizing yourself either. This article explores how to break free from self-minimization, detach from external validation, and embody quiet, effortless confidence—where identity is not something to prove, but something that simply exists.

No Human is Perfect: We Are All Works in Progress

Ethics refers to a person's understanding of right and wrong, influencing their actions, words, and belief systems. It is particularly relevant for those in positions of authority, such as religious leaders, cultural figures, politicians, and influencers. These individuals often position themselves as spokespersons for the divine, providing guidance on matters ranging from mundane issues to serious moral concerns. However, some who assume these roles exploit their positions, becoming self-proclaimed mediators between people and the divine. They dictate religious rulings, shaping followers' lives in various aspects, from personal choices to matters as grave as criminal punishments for perceived sins. Unfortunately, many of these figures lack moral integrity and often harbor desires for power, wealth, and control. Their hearts may be tainted with hatred and rage, and they frequently exhibit hypocrisy.

Every Human Being Is Incomplete In Terms Of Skills

In addition to knowledge, human beings are also limited in terms of skills and skill mastery. Skills represent the ability to perform an action or a pattern of actions, and skill mastery is the ability to perform these actions at a high level. Examples include champion boxers, footballers, music artists, writers, and others who have attained a high level of skill mastery. These individuals are often celebrated globally and pedestalized at the top of our culture, creating a separation between them and others. Moreover, their success in skill mastery is often coupled with financial wealth, leading to fame.

Every Human Being Is Incomplete In Terms Of Knowledge

Beyond our fundamental, infinite, inviolable human value, we are not perfect. The reality is that we are always in a state of incompleteness. We can only see so far, think so much, hear so much, and learn so much at any one time. Even a lifetime is not enough to fully comprehend the reality of anything. At most, we can learn some part of some things, but never all of them. We are limited by our human limitations. Even with all our technology, we are still dust on a dust ship when compared to the vastness of the cosmos. Moreover, we are not able to ever fully understand ourselves. We are always in a state of learning. No person knows everything about something, let alone everything about everything.

No Human Is Inherently More Valuable Than Any Other Human

No person is more valuable than any other person. Since we are all born with value, and that value is universal, drawn from our cosmic origin, no other man or woman can give it to us. Moreover, the value is infinite, deriving from the Infinity at the beginning of all things. No external factor can increase this value; individuals are born with all the value they can ever have—an infinite amount that cannot be heightened.